There’s a kind of pain that doesn’t look like pain. It looks like being “fine.”
It looks like staying composed.It looks like never crying—because somewhere along the way you learned that tears mean weakness.In this clip, Nick Ige describes the moment that belief finally broke. When he came fully back into his body after a powerful experience, he sat up and began weeping—uncontrolled, open, honest sobbing. The same thing he spent most of his life avoiding. And then something quietly human happens: the practitioner comes over, sets a bowl of berries and fruit in his lap, and Nick asks, “Hey brother… can I hug you?” After the tears, Nick says something that hits like a hammer:
“I think I found the secret to life.”
When he’s asked what it is, he answers in two words: To live. And to love.
Not as a slogan. Not as a bumper sticker. As a mission. A new definition of what a good life looks like: trying to truly live… and truly love people—even the ones you don’t like—while you’re still here having this human experience.
If you’ve been carrying the weight, holding the line, staying numb, or pretending you’re okay… this clip is a reminder that emotion isn’t weakness—it’s proof you’re still alive.
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